Rubbers in the house

Robbers enter a house, asks for all the money and valuables.
After they collect what they can, they give the man of the
house a gun with instructions to shoot his wife or else he be
shot himself.
The man gets the gun, points it at his wife and hesitates.
He is thinking of what he has gone through in life with his wife
and how she has suffered and sacrificed for him.
He hands back the gun and says, “I am sorry I can’t do this…
“The boss of the robbers silently grabs the gun from him and
passes it on to the wife with the same instruction.
The wife gets the gun and without any single hesitation points
to her husband’s head and pulls the trigger.
But at last, the gun had no bullets in it. The robbers get their
and walk out of the house laughing.
1. If you were the man in that house how would you react
towards your
2. If you were the wife, what explanation can you give to your
3. If you were invited to bring peace between this couples,
what advice
would you give?
Drop your Comments & this should really be an interesting
topic to discuss as counsellors.



Her first day at my place was an amazing one. She
brought me rice, dodo and 3 pieces of meat. I was
really touched and I felt she truly cared for me.
The most enthralling thing she did again was, she
washed all my dirty clothes, including my boxers
and she swept my room and arranged my
No lady had done such to me except my mom. I
was moved by that and felt more obliged to her.
We couldn’t do any reading that day. So I walked
her home around 6:30pm. I got to my room and it
looked quite different. Neat and very organized. I
laid on my neatly made bed and I thought to
myself. “Is it possible something real can happen
between Tope and I??” But I considered the years
she would spend in
the University and all.
She came the following day. This time she wore a
fitted gown. I Knew I was going to be in trouble if I
don’t seldom caution myself. I then told her to list
the most difficult topics she was facing. I put her
through and she was quite intelligent in grasping, I
was really impressed by her keen interest in
After studying she then
looked at me and said. “How is your girlfriend?” I
laughed and said. “Tope I don’t have a girlfriend.”
She said. “I don’t believe you.” I then said to her.
“Tope, I am not lying to you. Girls don’t find me
attractive, it’s not that I am
good looking. Even while in school, I never had the
chance to date any girl I admired.”
She said. “Adeoluwa , I know you are special. I
saw it in your eyes the the first time we met at my mom’s canteen. You are a special man.”


I then hid behind the canteen and after about 15
minutes she left the place. Tope then came to
meet me and said. “Sorry about it.”
I then said. “Its’s okay, no sweat. Your mom is
strict right?” She said. “No she’s not. I am
preparing for
JAMB exams and seeing me with a guy would
I then said to her. “Then why are you here working
in the canteen? You should be attending lessons
She said. “My elder sister is not feeling too fine
and she’s the one in charge of the canteen.
Yesterday was my first day here”
I asked her. “What course do you intend to study?”
She said. “Biochemistry.”
I said to her. “I finished with a first class in
Chemical Engineering. if you need any assistance I
will be glad to help you.”
She said. “Wow, that will be nice. I have a problem
with chemistry and physics. You must be a
genius! ”
I laughed and said. “No I am not, I just love to
read my books a lot. It takes hard work and
persistence to be successful.
My dad is a Professor and my mom is a Judge,
they really encouraged me”.
We finished cleaning up and I decided to walk her
home which she agreed. As we walked, we talked
about our families and she opened up
about the challenges she faced gaining admission,
being the only child amongst her siblings
privileged to attend higher institution. I was so
bent in
making her pass her JAMB and I promised her I
would teach her through.
I convinced her to tell her mom she needed to
prepare for her exams and that she won’t be able to continue with the running of the canteen.
The mom eventually succumbed and she got a
replacement. I made an arrangement with Tope, for
her to be coming to my place 4:00pm Mondays to
Fridays and 1:00pm on Saturdays, which she
My intentions were sincere, but with a little
thoughts of side attractions. In spite of
being attracted to her, I wanted her more than
anything to pass her JAMB exams this time


My name is adeolu There’s a
saying. “What can’t kill you can make you
stronger.” But
the truth is action speaks louder than mere words.
I don’t know how strong I will be coming out from
this predicament that I have found myself.
This all started about 2 years ago in my youth
service year in Kogi state. There was this very
good canteen not too far from Yagba East local
government council, where I frequent often for my
CDS. It was the aroma that lured me to the place,
the savory of scented stew and fried meat, it was
irresistible, I couldn’t just evade myself
from the luscious captivity that overwhelmed me
Perhaps, a simple restrain would have changed
would have saved me from all these. As I entered
the canteen, I grabbed a plate
and stood on the queue salivating and waiting
for my turn. When it got to my turn, before me was
something more compelling than the meal that I
expected. My eyes got locked in contact with the
young lady who was serving the meal.
She was beautiful beyond expression, I could
hardly compose myself and it took me some few
seconds to reboot. She then asked.
“What food do you want sir?” In fluent English. I
“Give me….. rice N50, dodo N50 and 3 pieces of
I was going to pay and she refused to collect the
money. I didn’t understand the kind gesture, I then
insisted and she smiled at me and said.
“It’s okay, it’s on me.” I then took a seat and
While I was eating, I noticed her looking at me at
some instance. It drove my curiosity wild and I
was eager to know her. She sounded quite
polished and she looked more dignified
than running a local canteen, I knew there was
more to it. As I was done, I went to meet her and
said to her.
“Thank you very much. My name is Adeolu can I
know your name?” She giggled and said. “My
name is Tope.”
As we both smiled at each other like teens gripped
in some high school crush.
So I left the place hoping to return the following
day. I got to my rented room and I was still
thinking of Tope.
She was average height, dark skinned and very
attractive. Her curves were at the right angle and
her bursts were an eye candy.
I knew I needed companion to quench my lust
I served my country in the beautiful state of Kogi
and Tope just happened to fit into the picture.
Being a nerd and a slacker isn’t a thing to be
proud of. I had only had s*x once, thanks to Seun
who took me clubbing then some chic
agreed to get down with me and at the end made
pay N4,000…That wasn’t funny. I felt I needed to
claim of my very own pet, a decision I soon regret.
The following day I went to the canteen, but this
time around I went there late.
food had finished, but the good thing was that
Tope had time to spare. She was busy preparing to
wash the
dishes and I didn’t hesitate to a*sist her.
She didn’t want me to get my hands dirty but I insisted. I helped her in getting water and she was
thrilled that a corper would stoop so low helping her with the dishes. Well, why wouldn’t I, it
granted me the avenue to view her heavy kegs that
jiggled as she was washing the dishes.
Suddenly her mother appeared from a distance,
Tope sighted her and she said to me.
“Please hide, don’t let her see you.”

How to get 5GB data with free N2560 for N2000 on MTNSurprise

MTN finally introduces an MTNSurprisepackage, by surprising users with 5GB data plan for justN2000 with extra bonus Airtime of N2560 after recharge. This offer seems to be a better alternative compared to theMTN 3.75GB for N2000that was introduced recently.The MTNSurprise package has already made my list as one of thebest internetdata plan for IOS, Android and PC. I advise you go through the list so you get to know the best internet plan and their alternatives for each networks.Before you can opt-in for the MTNSurprise package, you’re advised tomigrate to MTN Truetalk, as only migrated users would be eligible for theoffer. To migrate to MTN trutalk, simplydial*400#and you’re set for opting intothe MTNSurprise package.How to get 5GB data plan + N2560 extra with justN2000?1. First make sure you’ve migrated toMTN Truetalk, by dialing*400#.2. After that, recharge your MTN Linewith N20003. SMS,D2000to131and you’ll be rewarded with 5GB data with a free N2560 airtime bonus for calling MTN-MTN lines.Duration: 30daysThis plan works on all internet enabled devices and eligibility is for all MTN sims as far as you’ve migrated your lineto MTN Truetalk.What do you think about this offer? Amongst the best internet offer isn’t it? At least I know most of you’ll dump your smartphone offer, that is the 4.5GBfor N2500 offer and go for this. I know that this type of offer is what most call “b*d Market” for data resellers.Update:We confirmed that most MTN lines are given 2GB data instead of 5GB. Please do contact MTN customer care via whatsapp about the issue, so your data would be topped to 5GB. Contact MTN line via whatsapp with any of these numbers,09033000001,09033000002,0903300000

The Nigerian Labour Congress (NLC) on Sunday, May 22, called off its nationwide strike.

The Nigerian Labour Congress (NLC) on Sunday, May 22, called off its nationwide strike.
Speaking to journalists, the president of the NLC, Ayuba Wabba said the union is calling off the strike after several deliberations.
Wabba said the decision to call off the strike came after an emergency meeting of the National Executive Council of the NLC.
“After an exhaustive deliberation, NEC noted its protest action was informed by the twin issues of the unjustified and illegal hike in electricity tariff and increase in the pump price of petroleum products,” Wabba said.
He also said the council adjudged that the strike action is a success in spite of both internal and external challenges the union faced during the period.
“In consideration of the above, NEC after due consultation with its constituents resolved to suspend with immediate effect, the action it commenced on Wednesday, May 18, 2016. The action is thus hereby suspended,” he said.
He commended all those who participated in the action, stating that the union is committed to genuine dialogue within the framework of internationally established  and recognized principles of representation with it and the Nigerian government.
He further condemned the activities of the security operatives especially the police in Ebonyi state. Also present at the briefing include, renowned activist and lawyer, Femi Falana (SAN).